Eve Talks Dating: ‘Can’t Believe I’m With A White Dude’

7 Dec


It’s hard to believe it but in 2012, there is still a lot of backlash around interracial dating.

Eve says she can’t even believe that she ended up with a white man, but people need to quit giving her heat for it. Why? Because it’s 2012 and she’s happy. She also says that he is the most supportive man he has ever been with.

“I need them to stop [caring about interracial dating]. What year is it? Like, stop. Seriously. Trust me, I gotta say, it is weird for me that I’m with a white dude. Trust me. I look at him sometimes and I’m like, ‘You are so white.’ Seriously! Yes, I gotta be real like that. I’m the first black girl he’s ever been with, so we are learning. Trust me, he’s been through ‘Weave 101.’ I’ve been out on a date but not like this, not like my dude. I had to tell my mom and my step-dad who still thinks he follows Farrakhan. It’s crazy. We learn a lot about each other but people came at me like, ‘I can’t believe you’re dating a white dude and you don’t like black dudes no more.’ I’m like, ‘I love black men, it just so happens that my heart went this way right now.’ Who knows? I’m happy…My family’s happy. [My pops] is cool. He still keeps calling him ‘my friend.’ [He says], ‘How’s your friend?’ Like, it’s been almost three years.

People came at me. Now it’s better, like when I started sending pictures or people started seeing pictures on Twitter, people really came at me hard, but now it’s fine. Like I said, I do look at him like, I can’t believe I’m with a white dude. I don’t let him dance. I tell him, ‘Look like a pimp, I will dance around you.’ He can do a lot of things, but he can’t dance.”

Here is what I think. I think that love doesn’t care what race,gender,size,shape,religion the person you are in love with is. Love doesn’t care! I believe that Interracial Dating shouldn’t even be a question today. It is really a non-issue. It is mankind that has made this an issue. It is a bigger deal in some communities than others. As long as two people love one another I don’t think color, religion, culture, or even gender should matter. I think what should matter is that they love one another and that they can embrace their differences and live with it.

The only thing that gets to me is when someone dates outside of their race because they hate their own race, or because they want to make a statement. For example, if a black man wanted to date exclusively white women because he hates black women, that would irritate me alil. Or if a white woman wanted to date black guys to show black women that she can pull a black guy or because they have “bigger penis” (which isn’t true), that would make me question whether it [interracial dating] was right in their case.

In today’s society it seems that males and females get anger at each other for dating outside of their race. What is your opinion on Interracial Dating?



3 Responses to “Eve Talks Dating: ‘Can’t Believe I’m With A White Dude’”

  1. M.Ivan December 7, 2012 at 13:40 #

    Its so stupid its still an issue. Funny enough Black people in general seem to have a bigger issue with it and focus on race, tribe and nationality. Its so dumb!
    If you want to end discrimination change starts at home. In this case; the bedroom LOL. To me there is one race and its called SEXY the rest of them Can jump off a cliff for all I care.

  2. Barbara December 7, 2012 at 16:29 #

    i’m Barbara, and I agree with Eve.,everyone has a right to fall in love with whomever they choose to,i have seen a lot to know dat any kind of discrimating does no good.i am African . Cancer doesn’t choose race to affect someone, nor does HIV, depression, addiction,love, happiness, fulfillment. God knew wat he was doing when he created us to in different colours cos he made variety the spice of life.so anyone who doesn’t like it, like she said can jump off a cliff for I care.

  3. Gilberte Reibman December 10, 2012 at 20:00 #

    Love is love! Love dosent care about your color!

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